You’re out mingling a few nights a week. You’re on more dating sites than you’d like to admit. You see friends in relationships and think, “Why can’t I find someone?” Here are five reasons worth considering:
1. You’re Undateable
Before meeting a new date, you check yourself out in the mirror. You should probably look a little deeper. Are you a slob? Broke? Selfish? Do you carry unchecked emotional baggage? Learn how to take better care of yourself. A bit of introspection goes a long way.
2. Your Focus Is Wrong
You care more about finding a relationship than the right person. This leads to several problems, not the least of which is the aura of desperation that surrounds you. Even worse, you might end up in an unhealthy and unfulfilling relationship.
3. You’re Not Assertive
If you want something in life, go get it. This applies to love, too. If you’re passive and don’t make the first move, you’ll never find the relationship you seek. Ask him or her out!
4. Your Eyes Are Shut
The next love of your life could be anywhere. Keep your eyes open no matter where you are, not just when you’re at the bar or checking Tinder.
5. You’re Too Picky
Standards are important, but at what point might they rule out perfectly good dating opportunities? If you spend too much time looking at someone’s shortcomings, you could miss everything that makes him or her great.
Steven Ward is an expert on love, dating and relationships. As the host and executive producer of VH1’s hit show, ‘Tough Love’ he has gained notoriety for his no-nonsense approach to life and love over six successful seasons.
Steve is also the CEO of Master Matchmakers, an exclusive, high-end matchmaking service that has been coaching and connecting eligible singles to one another for over 20 years. Founded by JoAnn Ward, Steve’s mother, business partner and Master Matchmaker for more than 25 years, the firm has grown nationwide with a staff of more than twenty professionals working together coast-to-coast.
Ward has created a mobile dating app called Love Lab®, an agnostic mobile dating app engineered to give users a trustworthy channel for vetting people they’ve met online, or in person. The app provides an authentic and exclusive environment for singles by using background checks. It is the new great way to meet singles without having to deal with dishonesty.
Steve’s advice in dating and relationships has been sought after by many publications including Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Glamour, US Weekly, and People to name a few. He has appeared numerous times on national TV shows like ‘Extra,’ ‘Good Morning America,’ ‘Today,’ ‘Late Night with Jimmy Fallon’, ‘Rachel Ray’, ‘The Katie Couric Show’ and more. His book, ‘Crash Course in Love,’ authored along in collaboration with JoAnn, was published by Simon and Shuster. It’s a refreshingly honest and handy romance guide for women everywhere.
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